sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
http://www.echinacities.com/news/Gay-Man-Fakes-Marriage-and-Buys-Baby-Online-to-Hide-his-Sexuality-From-Parents i noticed you gave up responding when the comments got too tough. It appears that MOST of the babies stolen are for the domestic market. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Survival of the Fittest: The Difficulties of Finding a Job as a Foreigner(61 comments)
a bit harsh, but i would say there is an element of truth. But many of the ESL teachers i have met here, especially at public schools, are professional and dedicated teachers, not skirt-chasers. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Survival of the Fittest: The Difficulties of Finding a Job as a Foreigner(61 comments)
In my previous life, my company decided they would save money by out-sourcing to China, and therefore save money. The reality was further than the truth. The work had to be checked more than twice and re-sent to be completed correctly, and deadlines were missed, thus costing more in the long-run. The company then ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Woman Knocks Over Old Man, Refuses to Apologize Because of ‘Special Status’ (18 comments)
having a position of authority should mean that you behave in a manner worthy of respect. Respect is not something that you automatically get, it has to be earned. How can you respect anyone who believes someone who thinks it is ok to run over people ? Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
5000 years of 'civilisation' and people still spit in public, shove each other in 'queues' and film people involved in accidents to post on weibo rather than actually help. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
as a Chinese man, do you really know what most girls want? If you are talking about preferences, most women prefer men who have not had multiple partners. Oh, sorry, i forgot. This is not about 'foreign' ideas of equality so a woman's preference is not relevant. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
i have been trying to understand your meaning: can you please explain exactly what the 'Chinese understanding of gender equality' is? Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
i think you will find the instance of mother's killing babies quite rare in european countries, and are pursued vigorously by the law. Whereas baby-stealing is not rare in China. Shall i also refer you to the baby-hatch recently shut down in Guangzhou due to the number of babies being abandoned? I don't think you ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
http://www.businessinsider.com/chinese-nurse-arrested-for-selling-babies-2014-1 most children bought and sold within China remain within China. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
http://www.echinacities.com/news/Kidnapped-Yunnan-Woman-Reunited-with-Family-After-20-Years. Children are treated like property here, to be bought and sold. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
so are you saying that the domestic violence endemic within chinese society is ok because i am foreign and i don't understand? How is this or the mistreatment of women and children not a bad thing for ANY society? I have witnessed the casual violence regularly and you suggest i should accept this? Until women are ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)
"we Chinese have our own way of doing things. And we are doing just fiiine" So you mean that domestic violence is fine, and because anyone who is a foreigner objects to this, we are bad people ? Also, most foreigners don't accept the demands of girls for a house and car prior to marriage as ok. Likewise a ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news 600 Wenzhou Residents spend 260,000 RMB on Speaker to Repel Dancing Ladies(11 comments)
very logical. Prevent old-lady gangs from playing their loud music while they dance by blasting even louder music. Probably ****ing even more people off. This will probably result in the old ladies just changing their dance routine to fit the new music. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Unemployed University Graduate Uses English Skills to Scam Foreign Men(10 comments)
to be honest, any drunk man who picks up women in a bar is asking for trouble Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Giant Salamander Corpse Found In Hebei Reservoir(3 comments)
i'm sure it made someone a nice meal Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Money and Affection: Understanding the Financial Motives Behind Chinese Relationships(24 comments)
my answer is both serious and a joke. A joke because we have all heard this answer. Serious, because when i ask for a further explanation of 'chinese culture', all i get is silence. It is seen as a justification for any bizzare action. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news “Naked Resignation”: Following Your Feet Out The Office(13 comments)
While many young Chinese professionals might resign their jobs to travel, their options would be greatly limited by the fact that many destinations outside of China will refuse to grant them visa's due to their financial status. Single young Chinese would face greater scrutiny from prospective destination countries ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Money and Affection: Understanding the Financial Motives Behind Chinese Relationships(24 comments)
"You don't understand chinese culture." Full Comment>>
sorrel on news A Bar Too High: Marriage Survey Shows Women Have Higher Standards Than Men(11 comments)
a marriage partner requires a bit more than the fact he is good-looking, 1.8 m., speaks English and has a good job. What you say are all superficial things. Credit foreign women with a bit more depth of character. Full Comment>>
sorrel on news A Bar Too High: Marriage Survey Shows Women Have Higher Standards Than Men(11 comments)
there's a disaster waiting to happen. i would give that marriage about 6 months after the baby is born and the MIL has moved in. Full Comment>>
sorrel on sethbarham.esl 's blog I Can't Get Past the Driving(24 comments)
When talking about Chinese driving, i also include parking. As far as i can see, parking your vehicle is acceptable ANYWHERE. If there is a free space, there is a car or bike parked there. The number if times trying to cross the road has been changed into a game of chance by the cars parked on corners, thus blocking ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news The Third International Dog Show Being Held in Shanghai March 13-16(1 comments)
Will this be followed by the "Third International Cookery Competition" ? ;o) Full Comment>>
sorrel on Neha.p 's blog What it means to be a foreigner in China.(16 comments)
I continually come across people here who tell me 'facts' about my home country that make me laugh out loud. they say it with such assurance that when i correct them, they refuse to believe me: "but i read it on the internet......" Full Comment>>
sorrel on news Wuhan Primary School Customizes Desks to Combat Nearsightedness in Children(3 comments)
myopia can be a hereditary condition, so all this will do is make it worse. It can also be caused/increased by poor lighting, over-use of electronic equipment and the small print in the books used: (my local friends tell me the print can be very small) and poor diet. This sort of thing on a desk is unhelpful for ... Full Comment>>
sorrel on news French Customs Seize 2.4 Million Boxes Labeled ‘Chinese Tea’, Contain Fake Medication(3 comments)
a former student now working in a sales company asked me for some advice about selling his company's products in Europe. i pointed out to him the necessity of the customer having the correct import licence. He then asked me about my home country. I told him that his company's products were all illegal in my home ... Full Comment>>