rayjiao on news Mutianyu Mishap: Canadian Accidentally Kills Old Chinese Woman On Great Wall (32 comments)

Apr 12,2015 13:56 comment|58461|254826

You didn't really get my point. The bottom line is that it is a high paying job offered only to people of a certain race. It is the very definition of racial inequality is it not? You can look down on it because of your personal sense of pride, but before you say anything you should consider that there are lots of ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Mutianyu Mishap: Canadian Accidentally Kills Old Chinese Woman On Great Wall (32 comments)

Apr 12,2015 11:05 comment|58447|254826

people look down on? by who? the Chinese? All face jobs are incredibly well paid and the fact that people DON'T look down on them is the why they exist in the first place... It's like I tell you that there's a restaurant with a sign says only whites allowed, and I tell you there's a great amount of inequality and ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Mutianyu Mishap: Canadian Accidentally Kills Old Chinese Woman On Great Wall (32 comments)

Apr 12,2015 01:55 comment|58439|254826

Yes and no... Is the story news worthy? Yes, if someone fell off the empire state building and died, it would be on the news too... Did the story get more attention in China than normal because it is a FOREIGNER that killed a Chinese person? Absolutely. But I'm surprised that anyone is still surprised by this... ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news My Chinese Spouse: Love Has No Borders(33 comments)

Jan 21,2015 23:06 comment|54929|254826

wow, just wow.. you have no idea how much special treatment (the awesome kind) you receive in China for just being white.. When was the last time a Chinese girl decides to "broaden her horizons" by sleeping with a black or Azn guy? I don't even want to mention the amount of very VERY generously paid ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news View Point of a Chinese Daughter: Double the Trouble of Cross-Cultural Relationships(26 comments)

Dec 22,2014 08:43 comment|53666|254826

how is paying for girls "stepping up my game"? I'm judged on the color of my skin, not the content of my character... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news View Point of a Chinese Daughter: Double the Trouble of Cross-Cultural Relationships(26 comments)

Dec 19,2014 16:25 comment|53615|254826

I hear you man, but my problem is that I'm really attracted to the bar and club girls, and for one night stands only.. In this arena, white guys have the inherent advantage of..well..being white...I'm just bitter and tired of getting rejected because I don't look any different here.. if that makes any sense Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news View Point of a Chinese Daughter: Double the Trouble of Cross-Cultural Relationships(26 comments)

Dec 17,2014 10:05 comment|53549|254826

I don't really "fault" any chinese girl for being with a "laowai", and by "laowai", I mean white guys. I resent rather the current Chinese or Asian culture (you often encounter the same type of "racism" in Korea as well) which designates all white guys in China with this ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on DumpsterDiver 's blog Being Black in China: A Student's unique perspective(13 comments)

Dec 11,2014 19:35 comment|53395|254826

all I have to say is that if you think being black is hard in China, trying being asian... at least being black is..well..exotic.. I mean white guys can easily get one night stands here in china cuz girls are looking to explore and experiment, and at least black guys are exotic enough to be worth a try by some girls ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Wuhan Billionaire Searches for ‘Pure and Natural’ Wife(9 comments)

Jul 13,2014 12:54 comment|48389|254826

I can explain the pure and natural part actually. Pure means she's a virgin, and natural..I think it might've been a mistranslation, I think it's more like "innocent"... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Man Spends 250,000 RMB on Transformers Tickets to Show Up Ex Girlfriend(14 comments)

Jun 29,2014 10:48 comment|47963|254826

u got it wrong... it's not boy saves up 7 years for 250,000rmb with no house and no car.. it's boy made it in life with 250,000rmb to spare, but couldn't find his ex-girl to show her up from 7 years ago... as far as holding grudges go, yes, he held one.. but so did Michael Jordan, evidenced by his hall of fame ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Chinese Men, Western Women: Differences in the Dating Game(26 comments)

May 19,2014 19:18 comment|46460|254826

which one works the best? I'm serious, what one should I use? Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Bride’s Family Demands 10,000 RMB on Wedding Day: Groom Panics, Runs Away(21 comments)

May 19,2014 09:29 comment|46442|254826

Funny thing is that Mr.astrongman doesn't realize that in china, when you say "let's take it outside", it's never a YOU and Me figuring this out outside, more like a you call your friends and I call mine, and let's see what we got then situation. After that it's a who do you know at the police station and ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 07,2014 10:57 comment|45164|254826

you could, but I think you might need to improve your reading comprehension skills. The argument, or my initial argument rather, was that there are no better or worse cultures, only different ones, and gender equality as progress is a western notion, we Chinese have our own DIFFERENT understanding when it comes to ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 06,2014 10:32 comment|45150|254826

you are missing the point. It's about preferences. We Chinese men prefer our "wives to be" virgins. It's the same as most girls prefer their boyfriends TALL, or have a British accent. Should all the short guys rise up and demand "height equality"? What about those who don't have a British accent? ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 06,2014 10:24 comment|45149|254826

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1324599/Mother-pleads-guilty-shaking-baby-death-interrupting-playing-Farmville.html Children are treated like nuisance, to be killed.. I think I'm really making a sound argument here when I can link a story to prove how accurate my generalization of an entire society is... ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 03,2014 17:28 comment|45086|254826

what I'm trying to say is that you should never judge another culture based on the comparison drawn from your own culture. The fact that you say that the Chinese mistreat their children shows how little you know about the Chinese culture, really. I'm not saying you should accept anything. My argument is entirely ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 03,2014 09:44 comment|45070|254826

opps, so any American girl marries a non-American guy stands as proof of failure of all American adult males. YOU ARE THE REASON SHE LOOKED ELSE WHERE...haha Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 03,2014 09:38 comment|45068|254826

what I'm saying is that gender equality as progress is a western idea, and you are judging the Chinese culture based on your understanding of your own WESTERN culture. If you took Anthropology 101, then you should know that you can ONLY appreciate and understand a culture from within, and no culture is better or ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Silent Agreement: The Four Unwritten Rules of Courtship in China(46 comments)

Apr 02,2014 10:16 comment|45035|254826

I absolutely love the amount of western culture superiority complex going on in the comment sections on this site. so nobody went to college and learned the concept of cultural relativism ? Gender equality as progress is such a western concept, and we Chinese have our own way of doing things. And we are doing just ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Feminism in China: Past, Present and Future(27 comments)

Feb 24,2014 12:31 comment|44142|254826

I really don't get it. I've never seen a more empowered gender as the women are in China in the entire world. Women in this country get to demand a free house and a car before even considering some poor dude's marriage proposal, and it is perfectly normal. Women expect to be put on a pedestal by all guys at all ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Road Signs Call Hong Kong ‘Xianggang’ Between Guangzhou and Shenzhen(18 comments)

Jan 26,2014 10:44 comment|43353|254826

HongKong is part of China, and the official language in China is Chinese, not "mandarin"...a term made up and known only to those people outside of China. Therefore, the international name for HongKong very well should be XiangGang, a name written in its native language. Just like we no longer call ... Full Comment>>

rayjiao on news Road Signs Call Hong Kong ‘Xianggang’ Between Guangzhou and Shenzhen(18 comments)

Jan 24,2014 15:35 comment|43317|254826

By that logic, the correct name that the CHINESE people use for China is ZhongGuo, so next time you are using the word "China" in China you are using it wrong...so stop being an ignorant foreigner please Full Comment>>

rayjiao on chamaflauge 's blog The Content of My Character(31 comments)

Aug 28,2013 09:56 comment|39861|254826

Some places actually don't mind Asians that can speak Chinese as well..not all, but some from what I heard. Full Comment>>

rayjiao on calata89 's blog Disrespectful agents(4 comments)

Aug 15,2013 07:47 comment|39645|254826

not gonna lie, but it is hard to understand you guys when you keep asking for "lollies" at the movies..lol..jokes.. Full Comment>>

rayjiao on leshel 's blog What Chinese Learners think of English(21 comments)

Jun 25,2013 08:46 comment|38449|254826

well,it's not her fault. She's talking about this certain attitude that most Chinese ppl have..if you are not white, or at least from UK,US,AUS,CA (am I missing one here?), then your English is not perfect enough. But I kinda disagree with her point on the accent part... Having the "right" accent is very ... Full Comment>>

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