solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:43Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
GUEST 7816 wrote: "I don't want to say more because you just go on and on and on. This isn't talking, this is you dominating and rambling on and on. It's boring. Sorry if it sounds impolite but this is how I feel. Leave me alone now. Goodbye!" ---- what you call "going on and on" I would like you to see as my ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:35Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Don't you not see how PATRONIZING it is for you to address MeiMei as you have when you wrote :"Dear, don't humour him any longer." Some might even say you are being sexist - but I'm an old fashion person in many ways so I wouldn't say that. But I do suspect you are being overly familiar -- in an effort to ramp up ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:26Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
If you wish to be left alone why did you fail to respond to any of my points but only wrote when you had something rude to say: Guest 7816 wrote - "Dear, don't humour him." Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:17Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
In countries that have a mature Justice System we avoid such BIG, ANGRY DISCUSSION as this discussion about Mr. Hale. If China had a mature justice system there would be no need to make such a BIG and ANGRY DISCUSSION ABOUT Mr. Hale. And then, you could use your TIME and your MIND for other important problems. But, ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:16Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
MeiMei, by now you should understand that you were wrong to think that I support Mr. Hale's behavior. But, I must repeat, I do believe it is not very mature for you to insult people as you have. And it is not very mature for you to say "hacking" Mr. Hale's websites is "justice." Hacking Mr. Hale's website is not ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:14Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
MeiMei, by now you should understand that you were wrong to think that I support Mr. Hale's behavior. But, I must repeat, I do believe it is not very mature for you to insult people as you have. And it is not very mature for you to say "hacking" Mr. Hale's websites is "justice." Hacking Mr. Hale's website is not ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 28, 2013 11:08Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Hello, Meimei. I don't see any reply from you. Does this mean that you still do not understand that I was not supporting Mr. Hale's behavior? Does this mean that you still do not understand that I think behavior like Mr. Hale's behavior is very stupid? And will you now apologize for insulting me and my wife? You ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 23:21Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
In the future I will be happy to continue this discussion with any Chinese person, who may have difficulty understanding. And I would be happy to continue discussing this with any foreigner who wishes to behave maturely. Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 23:20Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Guest 7816. You said nothing . . .until you found an opportunity to say something rude - and in support of a Chinese person who clearly doesn't understand. In the future I will be happy to continue this discussion with any Chinese person - even if they are rude, who has difficulty understanding. And I would be happy ...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 23:17Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
I have all the patience inthe world with someone like MeiMei who simply have had no opportunity t learn about the fact sna logic I have referred to. But you sir, you are have no such excuse. You have yet to actually respond, logically, unemotionally, to any point I have made. Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 23:16Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Meimei, you are just confused. You are just wrong, MeiMie. You say "let me assure you" . . . but you don't even understand what I said. Mr Hale, and you and I, everyone in the world, are 99.9 percent genetically the same. We are all, generally, mostly the same. You are looking at his behavior, Meimie. Another writer ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 22:38Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
As another writer said here "Meimie does not really undestand what [I} am saying." I really hesitate to respond to your comments. You are acting very immaturely. And your knowledge of the facts I refer to is very limited. I was referring to a fact. All people, in the world, are GENETICALLY 99.9 percent the same. All ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 20:59Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
It is the face of things, people, and ideas that we look at not the substance which often lies out of site. As much as we might like to avoid such a reality, this Mr. Hale guy is probably, generally, mostly like any one of us. I guess that i why, in any improtant context it is never enough to defend yourself by ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 17:48Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
My experienc has taught me that, when you are discussing an issue, such as why do Chinese refer to "foreingers" as they do . . . look at how all pople are similiar in their use of this word. The differences that are left over will be very small and easily explained. Another point I try to never forget is that it can ...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 27, 2013 17:36Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Well, good. I'm glad . . . my adive is always to try and keep your thoughts on these issues as simple as possible. But, it is also important to remember that many people have difficulty seeing just how simple the world is. The world of ideas can be a very complex place if you let it become complex. Simple ideas ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 22:15Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
In my opinion, it is this "once-and-for-all" sort of thinking that we westerners should (lol) be helping 'teach' to the local culture; rather than getting involved in the BIG DISCUSSIONS about individual cases such as Mr. Hale. We are under-cutting our own value and we are selling out on the good lessons our Mom and ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 22:04Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
To continue. In Chinese culture there is a great importance placed on family duty - Children 'should' look after their parents (in fact, however, the National Chinese Government is considering enacting laws that will strengthen this "should modality to a "must - there is talk of laws that will require children to vis...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 22:04Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Before I put my keyboard to bed tonight, I would like to give one more example of how important RULE OF LAW is. And with this example, I also hope to illustrate how it is that, and how common it is that, people get their logic backwards even though it might seem they have not. In on of my first posts on this topic, ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 21:16Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
But, you are bang on about how it is that the actions of one foreigner here, in China, reflects poorly on us all. Are you familiar with the term, in pyschology, "projecting." This terms refers to how it is that we often project our ideas and beliefs onto others (ahahaha, such is what I think happens online when some ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 21:02Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
And, I suspect, the Chinese over-use the word foreigner - aside from the laziness of such use, they do it because of the tradional belief, held by Chinese, that every where a Chinese person is they are "under a Chinese sun"; thus, everywhere a Chinese person is becomes China. And, sadly, this notion of the "the CHine...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 20:56Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
But, I'll tell you a story (an apographal tale): one day, two Chinese guys were sitting on a park bench in Australia, or let's make it Britain . . . and a fine looking blond haired, blue eyed lass went walking by. What did the Chinese guys call her? They referred to her as "beautiful foreigner." But they wer the ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 20:47Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Oooh, I don't know . . . In the west, we have lots of nasty words for people of other races and ethnicities - "chink" and "jap" and "slavs" and "niggers"; and even derogatory names for people from our own countries and of the same ethnicities -- 'white folks' call other 'folks folks' such things as "rednecks", and ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 20:23Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
I will close with my comments to you, dear GFuest 7816 . . . ignore everything that has been said here, tonight . . . just go back, reread my earlier posts and please deal with the fact sna dlogic which I tried so hard to express - albiet in lenghty posts, because I KNOW IT TAKES A LOT OF WORDS TO M AKE A SINMPLE POI...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 20:22Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
Now, why did I point out these issues of logic with the words from GUEST 7816 : "This means that either a miracle happened and he was acquitted of all said crimes throughout the worldwide web, Chinese and Western, which would make this article and all herein invalid." Why, why did I point out these issues of logic? ... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
solhacehabravida
Jan 26, 2013 20:19Around China : solhacehabravida commented on news Dalian Foreigner in Rock Rage at Cars Blocking Sidewalk
I will close with my comments to you, dear GFuest 7816 . . . ignore everything that has been said here, tonight . . . just go back, reread my earlier posts and please deal with the fact sna dlogic which I tried so hard to express - albiet in lenghty posts, because I KNOW IT TAKES A LOT OF WORDS TO M AKE A SINMPLE POI...... Full Comment>>This comment has been deleted!
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