I have being in China for some time now and I have not seen a Chinese man with a Black woman...or should I say a Nubian woman. What! Chinese men don't like Nubians? Or is it that they are afraid of us? Maybe their parents...like Korean parents...told them not to bring home a Black woman. What's the deal? Elsewhere I have seen Chinese men and Nubian women, but not here in China.
However, it’s not uncommon to see the Chinese women with the Nubian male here in China. And it is definitely a commonplace sight in the Caribbean and other part of the Western world to see the blooming relationships between these two groups.
In the middle 1800s after the abolition of slavery, many Chinese men were sent to the Caribbean as indentured servants, very few women accompanied them, as a result of not having Chinese mates the men where force to date Nubian women, thus the beginning of the Chinese Caribbean Societies. Today in Jamaica and other part of the Caribbean we can still see family heads…Chinese grandfathers and their black off springs of children, grandchildren and great-grandchildren around them.
While I am here in China I would love to see some love…or should I say…some loving going on between the Chinese men and the Nubian women. And guys! Ignore the stereotype that some Chinese have of the Nubian women. The scent of the Chinese women assaults the Orbitofrontal cortex just the same as the scent of the Nubian women when there is no deodorant to protect her.
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thats the stupidest shet i've ever heard. ive never seen a Chinese guy with white girls either, does that mean Chinese men hate white girls? as far as koreans go, south koreans hate blacks. north koreans dont have a problem with blacks. what a surprise that south koreans are the u.s pupet state. in fact, you can do the same experiment in China. taiwanese, and hongers hate blacks more than mainlanders. why is that you say? because hongers and taiwanese are more likely to adhere to "western standards", that is hatred towards dark people. the biggest fear that white people have is the soliardity between black and Chinese. thats why they put out psyops like the ones above. the only way for blacks to defeat white racist norms is by teaming up with China.
Dec 06, 2013 11:59 Report Abuse
Right, I'm guessing the world makes complete sense to you this way. But have you even considered the fact that Chinese are very reserved and moderate in their behaviour, that mainzi (saving face/preventing embarassment) causes people to stick to the beaten path more than in most cultures, and that there is actually a fundamental clash in values between blacks and traditional Chinese? You say that only westernized coastal folk hate black, but I live far from the coastal regions, and blacks are still seen as inferior. Even more so in the mainland, in fact. Their openness, outspoken courage and individual confidence are not seen as virtuous values by traditional Chines, and in fact you'll find that the modern, coastal cities are in fact places where blacks are the least unwelcome. Shenzhen ("hongers"?) has quite a few black immigrants, but most Han Chinese despise them, feeling that scum is associating with scum. Please don't think I'm agreeing with any of their viewpoints here - I'm just telling you what I see. So if you want to believe that it's merely western imperial influence that's preventing negroid and mongoloid brothers from uniting against their common foe, then you're a complete eejit, so don't even try to understand what I said. "Their biggest fear" - what a crock. Traditional Chinese are petty-bourgeois, xenophobic and smallminded (with a little encouragement from gov't media), so don't hold your breath for that fantasy revolution of yours!
Dec 11, 2013 16:02 Report Abuse
American media is the Monarchy of the world. Approximately 11% of the American population is black. When a black man does something wrong in America it is magnified, as a result, blacks in America has done more badness than good...or so the media wants the world to believe. Guest has a point. I have been to Hong Kong and the intensity of negative energy towards me and other people of my kind was staggering, as a result, I fear going to Hong Kong. The only other place that I have experienced that kind of intense negative energy was in a certain area in New York (white dominated area). But that is not the point! The point is, there are millions and millions of single Chinese guys here in China...you are telling me that because of black hatred they would rather remain single than look at a black women? Coineineagh! Is that what you want us to believe? If that is the case then I am very worried for my kind. Afro-Caribbean men and Afro-American male have been put on the endangered species list, if this type of racism and hatred towards black and blackness has began to permeate throughout Asia, then it won't be long before Africans are also placed on that list (especially with the AIDS and HIV wiping out almost half of the population).
Dec 31, 2013 22:29 Report Abuse
chinese men will only look towards foreign women who can meet the approval of thir families, and black women have a number of additional stigmas attached to them that white women don't have. i may be wrong, but as it stands now, chinese men will not be into black women to solve any gender imbalance. remember that the importance of family and community approval is paramount to chinese facesavong habits. i've also had to face my share of pre-judgements. it's assumed that whites are all from wealthy filies, and my chinese in-laws fully expected to be showered with wealth at the wedding and baby's birth.fortunately my wife loves me rather than the illusion of me, or she would have left me long ago. suffice to say white folk also face prejudgements here, and they aren't always in our advantage. black families have a bad reputation of being matriarchies where the father does a runner. regardless of the reality of that stareo type, i can't blame chinese for being concerned about "family values". and racism is already institutionalized to some degree, because people favor light skinned asians over the darker skinned population. i have seen beautiful women of all races, but i doubt chinese men would even be willing to admit if they find a black woman beautiful. i have heard of chinese men preferring dark *chinese* women, but nubians is another matter.
Jan 02, 2014 14:06 Report Abuse
Chinese negative opinions of black people, or Nubians, display an appalling lack of cultural sensitivity. Nonetheless, many expat minorities with negative stigmas ('opportunistic' American serial daters, for example) have little trouble finding a partner, simply due to the fact that there are so few foreigners here, and so many curious locals. Family and group culture is very strong here, so perhaps there is too much pressure to conform, while Chinese abroad are more free to pursue the relationships *they* want, not that others feel they should have. And glamour matters - Nubian men have charisma from all those hiphop videos nowadays, while the same videos portray females as little more than junk-wiggling prostitutes. Some Chinese women may see the attraction of a black man, but dating a Nubian woman is about as appealing to Chinese men as walking around in public with a callgirl.
Nov 22, 2013 15:34 Report Abuse
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